Taurus doesn't clash with people who are different from it nearly as often as with people who are exactly as stubborn. That's why the signs least compatible with Taurus are usually Leo and Aquarius, two fixed signs that won't budge any more than Taurus will and that want very different things from an ordinary Friday night. Sagittarius and Libra follow, each sitting five signs away, and Scorpio, across the wheel, is a story of its own: deep attraction and a matching pair of dug-in heels.

None of these is a closed door. A hard match for Taurus is one where its way of loving (steady, physical, proven by showing up) needs a little explaining. Here is where each one rubs, what it gives Taurus anyway, and what helps.

What Taurus protects, and why fixed signs test it

Taurus (April 20 to May 20; the boundary moves by a day in some years) is fixed earth, ruled by Venus. In Taurus, Venus is the planet of the senses: a good meal, a soft sweater, a garden that took three years to get right. The Moon is also exalted in Taurus, a dignity astrologers read as emotional steadiness. Ptolemy's reasoning was almost poetic: after meeting the Sun in Aries, the Moon first shows itself and begins to grow in Taurus. In everyday terms, Taurus feels loved when life is predictable and the people in it are reliable.

Fixed signs hold. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius form a cross on the zodiac wheel, and each one is square or opposite to the other three. Leo and Aquarius square Taurus, so all three share the same refusal to back down while wanting different things. An argument between fixed signs is rarely loud. It's long. Two people can spend a week being perfectly civil about the thermostat.

Leo and Taurus: the big night out against the good night in

Taurus and Leo like many of the same things: good food, good fabric, beautiful places. The attraction is easy. The trouble is what each wants to do with all that. Leo, ruled by the Sun, wants to enjoy the good life where people can see it, at the new restaurant with a table of friends. Taurus would rather cook something slow at home and not have to talk to anyone after nine.

Money opens a second front. Leo is generous on impulse; Taurus is generous on a plan. And the two show love differently. Leo wants affection said out loud and often, while Taurus feels that fixing the leaking tap said it already.

What Leo gives Taurus is warmth and a reason to dress up. What Taurus gives Leo is loyalty that doesn't depend on applause. This pair works when Taurus learns to say the compliment out loud and Leo counts a home-cooked dinner as the grand gesture it is. For the view from the other side, read our piece on the signs least compatible with Leo.

Aquarius: the routine and the rethink

Taurus and Aquarius is the other fixed square, and the friction is tradition against experiment. Aquarius is fixed air, ruled by Saturn in traditional astrology and Uranus in modern astrology. It thinks in principles, loves people in groups, and needs room: its own friends, its own causes, and permission to change everything except its values.

Taurus wants the same café, the same route home, the same Sunday. Aquarius wants to know why Sunday has to be the same. Taurus can feel that Aquarius is never quite settled; Aquarius can feel that Taurus would like it to stay put like the furniture. When Taurus gets possessive, Aquarius goes cool, and both dig in.

What they share is a word that holds. Neither promises lightly, and both stay once committed. Aquarius widens Taurus's world, and Taurus gives Aquarius a stable place to come back to. The guide to the signs least compatible with Aquarius has more on this one.

Sagittarius and Libra: an awkward angle

Signs five apart share no element, mode or polarity, an angle astrologers call the quincunx. It tends to produce less fighting than the squares and more puzzlement.

Taurus and Sagittarius is the homebody and the traveler. Sagittarius, ruled by Jupiter, would spend the kitchen-renovation money on flights. Taurus wants the kitchen. Sagittarius's habit of saying yes to everything and deciding later unsettles a sign that likes to know what Saturday holds. The bridge is pleasure: both enjoy life, Taurus through comfort and Sagittarius through experience, so a trip with a very good hotel can make both of them happy.

Libra is the surprise on this list, because it shares Taurus's ruler. Venus rules both signs, but it shows up differently in each. In Taurus it is tactile and private; in Libra it is social and diplomatic, more interested in how people get along than in what's for dinner. Libra wants the party; Taurus wants a table for two. Both love beauty, though, and a home they furnish together tends to be lovely.

Scorpio: the opposite who holds on just as tightly

Scorpio, opposite Taurus, is attraction and tension in equal measure. Both are fixed, both are loyal to the bone, and both can be possessive. Venus, Taurus's ruler, is in its detriment in Scorpio, and the Moon, exalted in Taurus, is in its fall there. The axis runs from the most settled place for feelings to the most stirred-up one. Taurus wants comfort and calm; Scorpio wants depth and full disclosure.

Taurus and Scorpio can have tremendous chemistry and a stubborn streak to match. A disagreement can turn into a silent siege. When they trust each other, few pairs are more devoted.

How a Taurus softens a hard match

  • Name what you're protecting. A "no" to a last-minute plan usually means "I need to know what my evening looks like." Saying the real reason gives the other person something to work with.
  • Agree on a change budget. One new restaurant or one unplanned weekend a month, chosen by the more restless partner. It keeps Aquarius and Sagittarius from feeling caged and keeps Taurus from feeling ambushed.
  • Say it in words. Leo and Libra both like to hear love, not just receive it in casseroles.
  • Don't let silence argue for you. In a fixed-sign standoff, the first person to reopen the conversation hasn't lost anything.

Plenty of these pairings work. A Sun sign is one layer of a chart: a Taurus with Venus in Aries may be far more spontaneous than you'd guess, and a Leo with a Taurus Moon may love a night in. You can see those placements in a free birth chart, and the easier side of the wheel is covered in Taurus's best match. If a partner keeps treating your trust lightly, though, that's an answer whatever their sign.

Questions readers ask

What sign is Taurus's enemy?

Astrology doesn't really do enemies, but Leo and Aquarius are traditionally the hardest signs for Taurus. All three are fixed signs, so disagreements tend to stall rather than resolve. With patience on both sides, either can still be a good match.

Why do Taurus and Aquarius clash?

Taurus wants routine and security; Aquarius wants freedom and change. Both are fixed signs, so neither gives ground easily. They do share loyalty and a strong sense of keeping their word, which is a good foundation if they can agree on how much routine to keep.

Can Taurus and Leo last?

Yes. Both are loyal and slow to leave, which is why these couples often last once they're committed. The work is balancing Leo's need for attention and nights out with Taurus's need for calm, with spoken appreciation from both sides.

Is Scorpio a good match for Taurus?

Often, though it's intense. As opposite signs they share loyalty, sensuality and a love of commitment, and both can be stubborn and possessive. Honest talk about jealousy and trust makes the difference.